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Saturday, December 14, 2013

Reflection

Not knowing when you’ll see a friend again is probably the worst feeling in the world.  Goodbyes are seriously the worst.  But I’m trying not to dwell on all of the goodbyes because I have to concentrate on mentally preparing myself to 
a) see my family again 
b) eat actual food again instead of the absolute rubbish I've been eating the past week and 
c) work like crazy before I move back to NCC.  

I’m supposed to write a reflection on my study abroad experience as part of my GLS class requirements. Actually, I was planning on writing a reflection anyway.  Believe it or not, this English major loves to write.  I have grown quite fond of this blog.  And I suppose the whole point of this blog is to track my progress and write down my experiences.  So in a way, this entire blog part of my reflection.  

Anyway, I've said goodbye to a number of people, starting with Tessa and Josephine on Friday and ending with Sarah this morning.  And there are still a few that I need to see before I leave on Monday.  For the most part, I feel really sad right now and I just want to hightail it out of here.  I really do feel at home in Canterbury, but without all of my friends, it’s just another medieval English city with souvenir shops and upscale tea rooms.  Because my friends are leaving to go home for Christmas holiday, I’m ready to leave, too.

Yet somehow home seems further away than ever right now.  It’s not that I don’t want to go back.  I miss my family SO MUCH.  But there’s no denying the fact that Canterbury is my second home and it will still feel like part of my home for some time.  Who knows how long that feeling will last..?
  
I’m about to get real deep, here.  So you can’t say I didn’t warn you. 
Me, Kaitlyn, and Sarah <3

As clichĂ© as I know this is, it has to be stated:  I have learned a lot about myself over the past 3 months.  I started this term with an attitude of “I can do this and I don’t need anyone’s help.”  It turned out that being Miss Independent not only takes time and practice, it also takes a certain kind of maturity.  I thought I possessed this maturity, but I definitely didn't.  To be honest, I don’t think this kind of maturity can be acquired in just 3 months.  So while I would like to say, “I’m completely 100% independent after my term in Canterbury” I realise that this statement would be false.  Sorry if that’s not what you were expecting, guys.  But it’s true. 

Know what else is true?  Friendship.  Without friends, I would have melted into a puddle of sadness and dripped down the cobblestone streets of Canterbury with the rainwater.  Seriously, though.  Nobody goes abroad and survives without friends – old and new.  You just can’t do it alone.  The people who have befriended me were purposefully put into my life to make me laugh, to challenge me, and to listen to me.  Friendship is invaluable.  The friends I have here are invaluable.  And I mean that.

Saying goodbye to Georgia at Waitrose (our favourite spot)

Georgia's coming to NCC next fall! Woo!!


Perhaps most importantly, I have learned a lot about the world over the past 3 months.  There is so much more to this world than just me.  The problems I deal with on a daily basis are so small and insignificant compared to the issues that each country faces and that mankind faces (yeah, I told you I was gonna get deep).  England truly has a global perspective that is not found in the States.  *Spoiler alert* America is NOT the centre of the universe.  Extremely biased media, Hollywood, the U.S. government shutdown… it’s all such a pain in the butt.  And it’s embarrassing.  Never in my life have I felt embarrassed to be American, until this term abroad. 

Now before you call me crazy and accuse me of disloyalty, stop and think about the issues the U.S. deals with and how the rest of the world views Americans.  It’s not pretty, friends.  It’s just not.  We should fix that.

I still love my country and I’m still proud to be an American despite all of this.  However, being abroad has rightly given me a more global perspective.

Tonight we are headed to Spoons to have a chill night out.  Tomorrow I plan on going to a Sunday church service at the cathedral and then possibly heading out to Dover for the afternoon.  Oh.  And packing.  And eating my feelings. 


You can expect another sappy post on Sunday night, when I'm even more of an emotional wreck.  

Have a good night, folks! 

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Only 5 Days Left...

Guess what, world? In 5 days , this girl is going back to the US of A - the land of french fries and home of the pedestrians who get the right-of-way.  All I can think of right now is my family and how much I want to be with them and... and real peanut butter. And deep dish pizza.  And my bed.  And my dog.  And my clarinet.  And my piano.  And Kashi.  And bread that doesn't expire in three days.  Okay.  I'm sounding pretty pathetic now.  But I really do miss my family.  

On the other hand, I am saying my final goodbyes today and tomorrow, and that is going to be really awful.  Honestly, I'm not trying to sound cliche, but I've met some pretty awesome people this term and I can't imagine not seeing these people on a regular basis. So far I've been good about pushing the sadness to the back of my mind.  But I have a feeling that it's all going to hit me very hard when I'm finally settled at home. I hate goodbyes! Ahhh! :'(


How I feel about leaving England: 

Part of me is like


But most of me is like
(Yes, both halves of me are equally insane... and black, as Kaitlyn pointed out)

What am I going to do when I leave all of this behind? So many mixed feelings right now.  This morning I was making a mental list of all the things I am thankful for.  So many of the items on this list are related to this trip and the lessons I've learned, people I've met, and places I've visited in my time here.  This is going to be so bittersweet. Wow.  

Without getting too mushy, here is my list of the top 10 things I will miss the most about England:


1.  Easy travel to the rest of the UK and Europe











2.  Castles!!

 Windsor Castle
 Caernafron Castle in Wales
 Conwy Castle in Wales

3.  Cathedrals

 Canterbury Cathedral
Rochester Cathedral
Notre Dame

4.  Lectures only happen once a week


5.  Pubs 

 My first time at a pub!
 We're poor so we buy appetizers and split them amongst ourselves...
This is the pub where C.S. Lewis and J.R.R. Tolkien met every Tuesday to discuss each other's work.  The conversations that took place in this pub profoundly impacted the course of 20th century literature.

6.  London









7.  Walking everywhere


8.  Not buying textbooks


9.  Some English foods and TEA

YORKSHIRE PUDDING, PEOPLE.
Biscuits... so many biscuits.
Tea and scones.  Scones with clotted cream... sigh.
Takes two years off of your life, but oh so worth it.
Tea at the sea side!

Tea time makes you feel like a proper Jane Austen character.

10.  The PEOPLE

 Georgia, Sarah, and I walking to Whitstable!

Josephine, Crystal, Amanda, Dora, Kaitlyn, Tessa, and myself having a proper girls' night in :)

Georgia and I - Essentially the coolest people you'll ever meet.

 Getting weird at Thanksgiving dinner

Aw, I love them. :)




Monday, December 9, 2013

Typical Monday

It's my last full Monday in Canterbury and guess what happened, guys?!

MY 2000 WORD ESSAY DIDN'T SAVE ON MY COMPUTER.

I literally just finished writing this essay about an hour ago. After five hours in the library, it was finally finished.  So I emailed it to myself to print and...... yeah. You can guess the rest.  What a sick joke.

I really hate my life right now.


Golly, I just can't wait to write this paper for the second time! 
Happy Monday, everyone. 


Saturday, December 7, 2013

Christmas Carols at Canterbury Cathedral

Last Tuesday I attended a Christmas Carols service at the cathedral.  The University Choir, Chamber Choir, and Gospel Choir all performed, along with two interpretive dancers.  We reserved our tickets ahead of time online, and I’m glad we did.  The cathedral was packed!  I only saw about a third of the choir because a massive column prevented me from seeing the entire stage.  You think they could’ve moved that 1400 year-old column so I could actually see the people singing?  Is that too much to ask? ;)

So the carol service was lit completely by candlelight, which, as you can imagine, was pretty cool.  At the beginning of the service, there was a general welcome given by the bishop and then all of the electric lights went off at once.  Kinda gave me the chills!  It was so neat to be in that old cathedral with the lighting exactly how it would have been 1400 years ago.


In between each carol, various student representatives stood up and read passages of the Christmas story.  Although the event was officially sponsored by CCCU, the entire Canterbury community seemed to be present.  What a great experience to see everyone together in one gigantic space, all in celebration of the true meaning of Christmas!  It was such a beautiful event.  It’s so refreshing to not have to worry about political correctness.  The Christmas season is all about Jesus coming to earth.  To see the entire Canterbury community singing “O come let us adore Him…” was a really special moment.

Anyway, on to more uninteresting things…

Let’s see.  This past Friday, my housemates and I attended a Christmas dinner held by the CU.  It was a great night and I wish I could’ve helped out in preparing it.  The food was quite good and many of my fellow Americans commented that this event felt more like Thanksgiving to them than the celebration the International Office planned for us.  And I am inclined to agree.  After the food, a student spoke on the true meaning of Christmas.  Although it was essentially an outreach event, I’m really glad I went and it was so cool to see the CU loving on all of us.  They are the best! 

Lately, my right wrist has been irritating me again.  I believe it’s the cold weather that has put it out of sorts.  It seems to happen consistently around this time of year.  It’s unfortunately affected my piano practice and it’s started to hurt when I type, which is a real pain considering I’ve been writing a lot of final essays these past few weeks.  I think I’m experiencing the musician’s equivalent of writer’s block.  Nothing I play is making musical sense and I feel really frustrated and generally just uninspired.  Whatever is wrong with me, I will never know.  Maybe I’m just restless to get home.  It’s as if my creative juices have suddenly evaporated.  Gross.

This weekend was relatively uneventful.  I have one final essay to finish and it’s due next Wednesday.  I’m analyzing Thomas Shadwell’s Restoration play “The Libertine” from a feminist perspective (you never saw that one coming, did you?).  It’s a disgustingly fascinating play about a misogynist pig who rapes and murders women for fun.  I know you’re all rushing to get a copy of this play now, so I won’t continue my summary and spoil it for you all.

OH! Almost forgot – this week I had the pleasure of receiving a package of Christmas goodies from Georgia’s mum.  HOW COOL IS SHE??  Apparently, Georgia told her about how upset I was because I hadn’t received any packages from home.  So Mrs. Hirst sent me some Christmas chocolate and some cute little decorations.  I am liking this woman more and more.  I must write her a thank you note. 

Well, we're getting down to the end of it.  I am spending as much time as I can with the awesome people that I have become friends with over the past three months.  This last week is going to be really weird.  I keep having dreams about being home and being here and generally just being confused and emotional.  I have to make sure I say all of my goodbyes because everyone seems to be leaving at different times throughout the upcoming week.  A lot of people are headed home starting Wednesday of next week, which is several days before we leave.  It's going to be SO WEIRD being in this city without all of those cool people! It makes my heart hurt a little. 

That is all I have to report, friends.  What the heck.  I’m going home in a week.  Eeeeeeeeeee!!

:)   :(   :/   :D   :’(




Thursday, December 5, 2013

Quotes From Fall Term at CCCU

Half of these make no sense unless you were there in the moment, but here are some memorable quotes from the past three months.

. . .

"We should be drinking right now..." – Rich, as we discuss religion and politics in seminar.

“What is homecoming?” – Georgia 

“PROPS.” – Sarah Andrews on life.

“She’s not even a Christian but, oh, that voice would turn people to Christ.” – Georgia on hearing a talented non-Christian singer in her gospel choir.

“She fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down.” – Tony on Camilla, the Duchess of Cornwall.

“We have this wonderful thing called bull sh*t.” – Martin on the media bias.

“They are always hanging up on me.  I don’t even know why…” – Martin on telephoning his kids.

“I know some American history… Bill Clinton!  And Hillary Duff.  I mean, Hillary Clinton. Yeah.” – Bex

“Today we will be discussing how the government works (or doesn’t work, in your case).” – Martin commenting on the US government shutdown in lecture.

“Unless you can out BS the other BS-ers, you can’t be Prime Minister.” – Martin on the Prime Minister’s job.

“I always say the cause of WWI is… the “R” word.” – Martin
“Republicans?” – Kaitlyn
“RACISM.” – Martin

“I don’t know about you, but I think those are sexy grapes.  I want to reach out and grab those luscious grapes.” – Brain on Georgia O’Keefe’s painting Grapes on a White Dish.

“Georgia, is your middle name Massachusetts?” – Crystal

“How did you find it?” – Georgia on the Christians in Sport meeting at Costa
“What, the Costa? I knew where it was.  It’s on the high street.” – Me
“No, I mean, like, how did you find it? Good?” – Georgia
“OH. You mean how did I like it?” – Me
“No, I mean how did you find it? …” – Georgia

“I thought we discussed this already!” – Jonathon
“Calm down, tiger!” – Kaitlyn

“You can tell I was born in a time of rationing… I’ve been saving up on food for years” (pats his enormous beer belly) – Martin

“Why are you FB stalking me?” – Kaitlyn
“I want to know you.” – Georgia

“I got mad – I ripped the cat.” – Kaitlyn

“What about Jersey Shore?  West Dakota?  New England? …” – Bex on naming the 50 United States.

“It’s not like we’re going to Mexico.  I can just find an ATM and get cash.” – Me on going to London.

“I think heaven will be quite good.” – Georgia (completely serious)

“I’m over it… But I reflect on it daily.” – Georgia on growing up with two older brothers who are abusive

“She/he needs to get a grip.” – Georgia on everything.

“Is this written by an American?  Americans have this way of using the most complicated words… like, what is this?  This is not a word.  I think she’s made it up.” (looks at the front cover of the article) “Ah, yes.  She’s from Yale. You might need a dictionary to read this one.” – Random tutor in the cafĂ©

“It’s 16o’clock” – Crystal

"You might surprise yourself" (in a husky, quiet whisper)  – Sarah Andrews

“I’m studying W. E. B. da-boys” – Georgia 

"Jon wrote 'Print legibly' on his course evaluation form.  Aaaaand he misspelled the word 'legibly.' Sigh." – Pat

Monday, December 2, 2013

Thanksgiving and a trip to Rome





Our Thanksgiving feast was awesome!  You better believe I was missing my family.  In spite of that, everything was wonderful.  I was surrounded by great friends and I stuffed myself to capacity, true to Thanksgiving tradition.  The CCCU International Office did a lot of work to help us plan this event.  I am extremely thankful that they were so willing to help us.  Honestly, I had such a great time and it really felt like home.  From the decorations, to the speeches, to the food, to the band, right down to the turkey hands, everything was excellent.  The only thing that would’ve made it all even better?  My family… and maybe some real pumpkin pie. ;)  However, given the circumstances, I’d say Thanksgiving in Canterbury was a HUGE success! 



And now I would like to attempt to discuss my three-day adventure in Rome.  I say “attempt” because I’m not sure if I can really explain my experience, but I will do the best I can.

It all started out kind of messy, actually.  I was having issues with my ATM card on Thursday (Thanksgiving) and I couldn’t withdraw any money.  Obviously, I needed Euros for Rome, but I couldn’t take out any cash here in Canterbury.  I began to worry that my last transfer was still pending.  With no money to convert to Euros, I figured that I just wouldn’t get to go to Rome.  I had decided this privately and wasn’t planning on telling the group until that night.  Honestly, it was a really crappy morning for me and I was really sad that I wouldn’t be able to go.  However, my friend Crystal happened to stop me to chat and she asked if I was going to get Euros for the trip.  I decided I should tell her then that I wasn’t going to go.  She suggested I borrow money from her, but I have already done that several times and it makes me uncomfortable to do that.  But then she suggested I transfer my money into her account – since we have the same bank, the transfer would be instantaneous.  So I ended up doing that, and everything worked out just fine.  I think the lesson here is elementary, but important:  things do not always go according to plan. I need to learn to be more flexible and think outside the box.  I spent the whole day worrying and crying to my mom that I couldn’t go to Rome when I could have just swallowed my tears and figured something out.  Still gotta work on that… Anyway, moving on.  Crisis averted.

Did you know there are three main types of taxi drivers in London?  Well, allow me to enlighten you:

1.      The talker – this guy doesn’t shut up.  Oh, it’s 5am and you were up at 4 to head to Stansted Airport?  Don’t care.  Talk to me. 

2.      The speed racer – this one is by far the scariest.  He flies down the motorway like nobody’s business.  And his driving in London traffic makes you want to start writing your will.  You try to sleep in the taxi, but you can’t because your life is flashing before your eyes.

3.      The club DJ – this one is funny, but not in the early morning.  How do you know you have the clubbing taxi driver?  He plays club music the entire ride.  Or he plays Wrecking Ball on repeat.  Both are equally awful.  Especially at 5am. 

On our way to Stansted at 5am, I’d say our taxi driver was a rare combination of the talker and the speed racer.  If it wasn’t for the traffic, we would’ve arrived in London just an hour after leaving Canterbury – this commute normally takes two hours. 

We booked our flight through RyanAir.  The plane smelled like a running hairdryer.  And it was really cold.  And budget airlines charge you for every single blessed thing they can.  Need to pee on the plane?  That will be £1.00.  Want some crappy airplane food?  That will be £2.00.  Etc. 

The flight was three hours, but we lost an hour once we arrived in Rome.  The first thing that greeted us as we walked off the plane was…. THE SUN.  “Oh wow, the sun is so… bright.” – Crystal Wohead, ladies and gentlemen – the words of an American who has been cooped up in cloudy Britain for three months. 

Anyway, after catching a bus to the city centre, we walked fifteen minutes to Momi B&B.  Nestled in the heart of Rome’s China town, we had a nice view of the all the finest Chinese shops.  Actually, it looked more like an apartment instead of a bed and breakfast...






Friday afternoon and evening we walked to the Coliseum and explored the city.  The funny thing about Rome is that it has only two metro lines and they are mostly on the outskirts of the city.  We ended up walking A LOT over the course of the weekend for this reason.  Coming from London, where there is a tube stop practically every ten feet, this was pretty strange for us. 

How to describe Rome… let’s see… I mean, it’s obviously beautiful.  It’s exotic.  It’s very Mediterranean, which I wasn’t exactly expecting.  There are random Roman ruins everywhere you look.  We would be walking around a very urban area and suddenly come upon a cluster of ancient buildings falling apart in the middle of the city.  It’s really amazing. 






We saw the Coliseum in the evening on Friday.  It’s absolutely massive and breath-taking.  I tried to imagine what it was like in its day, filled with spectators and gladiators.  About a third of it is currently being renovated.  I imagine the Coliseum is pretty regularly under renovation, along with the Roman Forum and Palatine Hill, all of which contain ancient buildings. 










After walking around the city, we started searching for a place to eat dinner.  When we found a place that seemed decent, we walked looked at their menu, which was posted outside the door.  It looked good, so we headed in only to find the place completely deserted.  It was like something out of a horror movie.  The lights were on, but dimmed, and the tables were set, but not a single soul was inside the restaurant!  We said “Hellloooo?” a few times, then got freaked out and got the heck out of there.  Crystal swears she saw one of the table cloths rustling, as if something was moving underneath.  Creepy.

We finally stopped at a small but nice-looking restaurant to have some authentic Italian food.  I had a pizza and it was a delicious pizza. 


Saturday was packed with activities.  First, we headed to the Vatican.  This was the first time we took the metro.  I was pretty nervous because a friend of ours who went to Rome a few weeks ago had her phone stolen on the metro.  Thankfully, we didn’t have any problems. 

At the Vatican City (which is apparently its own country, technically), we waited in a massive queue to go through the surprisingly lax security check, and then went into the Basilica of St. Peter.  Let me tell you about the Basilica, friends.  Now I don’t mean to sound snobby, but I’ve seen some pretty spectacular things these past three months, and the Basilica is by far the most majestic and luxurious thing I’ve had the pleasure of laying my eyes on.  I’m not Catholic, but I can definitely appreciate the splendor and dignity of such a place. Also, after seeing all of these ancient buildings with Latin inscriptions, I really want to learn some Latin!













Unfortunately, we had to pay €8.00 to gain access to the Sistine Chapel and the Vatican Museum.  Initially, I wasn’t too interested in seeing the museum.  I just wanted to get to the Sistine Chapel.  In retrospect, I’m really glad the group of friends I went with were taking their time in the exhibits because that kind of forced me to take a closer look at everything.  We saw some awesome tapestries, frescos by Raphael, and other fantastic paintings by Caravaggio and the like.  The pictures I took are not the greatest, so you’ll have to trust me when I say they are magnificent and literally take your breath away.












Unfortunately, we couldn’t take pictures inside the Sistine Chapel.  From ceiling to floor, the place is covered in frescos.  Some depict scenes from the Bible, others are of famous Catholic saints and religious figures.  The chapel itself is surprisingly simple compared to the grandeur of the Basilica.  But I think the point is to draw the worshipper’s eyes upwards.  And that was certainly accomplished.  The one thing that irritated me was the noise inside the chapel.  It was crowded, which is to be expected.  But the guards kept announcing “Silencio, silence please!” over the loud speakers, but no one was really listening.  Along with the rest of the Vatican, the Sistine Chapel has a dress code and requires that guests be silent out of respect for the sacredness of the place.  It was obvious that not too many people were interested in observing the rules.

Next we headed around town in search of lunch.  We came across a cute little outdoor cafĂ© where my friends got lunch.  I ended up just getting bruschetta because I had packed my own food to eat so I wouldn’t spend too much money.  After lunch, we walked around the city and explored some tourist shops.  One thing that really struck me was the number of homeless people on the streets of Rome.  It seemed like a real problem.  I felt a pang in my stomach every time I passed someone laying prostrate with his/her hands extended upward for spare change.  It was heart wrenching. 


We also saw the Castle of Saint Angelo (I think that’s what it’s called…?) and walked to the Pantheon and the Trevi Fountain afterwards.  We did so much walking.  Seriously.  It was crazy, but I suppose it’s helpful that we were burning off all of those carbs from the amazing Italian food we were eating. :)

The Trevi Fountain is apparently a big deal, but I’ve never even heard of it.  Talk about embarrassing.



The Pantheon was a church, I believe.  At least, it’s a church now.  When we arrived at around 6pm, they had just started mass.  It was really cool to see the service happening through the open doors.  There were guards stationed at the entrance, but we were still able to look inside.  All of these ancient buildings are just so impressive, even by today’s standards.  I can’t even believe how old they are!  Crazy.




Of course, we had to have real gelato in Rome, so we went in search of the perfect place.  We tried to stray from the main tourist shops and found a nice place in a more residential area.  The woman at the counter did not speak any English, so it was kinda cool to communicate with her.  Needless the say, the gelato was amazing.



For dinner on Saturday, we ate at another great place.  I had gnocchi which was good but not my favourite.  It’s sort of like a pasta dumpling, but made with potato.  Very filling and very heavy in your stomach.  We all split a bottle of red wine because our waiter was cute and he recommended it. ;)


On Sunday we went inside the Coliseum.  We went at 9am, right when it opened, so there we hardly had to wait in line for it.  The only thing I can really say about the Coliseum is that it is epic.  I mean, everyone has studied the Coliseum at some point in their education.  Gladiators, animal fights, naval battles, cheering crowds, and trap doors with angry beasts…. What’s not to love?

It was especially cool to see the tunnels that would have been under the stage of the Coliseum.  The intricate pathways looked pretty awesome, but I would imagine it would not be so awesome to have to go through those if you were a gladiator or an angry, half-starved animal.










The steps inside the Coliseum were definitely original.  They were super steep and my legs are still sore from them. 

Included in our ticket to the Coliseum was the Roman Forum and Palatine Hill.  Both are essentially a historical walkway filled with Roman ruins and Roman gardens.  They say it is where the center of the Roman market used to be.  We were allowed to wander around and explore on our own time, which was really fun.  There’s just so much to see there.  I could’ve spent days there.









So remember how I said Paris is the highlight of my study abroad experience?  That’s not true anymore.  Rome is definitely my favourite experience in Europe.  The city is so old and filled with so much history, it’s almost overwhelming.  But I loved every moment and I’m extremely thankful for the opportunity to travel there!  Travelling on our own (without a guide) is such a rewarding experience.  We had to navigate our way around the city by ourselves and plan everything without any help.  This is definitely harder than it seems.  But everything went off without a hitch.  It’s nice to travel without any deadlines or group meeting times.  We were free to explore the city on our own time, at our own pace, and that was very satisfying.  Also, I’ve realized that language is not the only means of communication.  There are plenty of ways to connect with people of different nationalities, even if I don’t share a common language with them.



 Ciao, Roma! 
~ A Travel Blog by Kristin ~